If you’re queer and living in London in 2025, chances are you know someone in an open relationship. You might think it’s a fad; you might think it’s the only reasonable response to widespread capitalist ideas about love. Either way, it feels like monogamy is increasingly followed by a question mark in discussions around modern dating.
Monogamy, non-monogamy and their common downfalls are the subject of Jake Brunger’s Four Play. A couple of seven (and a half!) years strong start to feel the itch. They believe that a one-off arrangement with their friend Michael will solve the problem: one shag each, questions answered, book closed. Michael’s relationship governs that he cannot sleep with friends, but a discussion with his partner gives him the green light. The arrangement proceeds, and things unravel in a web of awkwardness, jealousy and massage oil.
What’s great is that the show gets at the messiness of all relationships, rather than trying to definitively answer any questions about monogamy/non-monogamy. Both couples have to tackle issues around trust, communication and differing desires. Their boundaries change as they face various challenges, and in the end the success of each relationship has nothing to do with whether or not they were seeing other people. Brunger illustrates smartly the unfortunate truth that no set of rules can protect our relationships from our own, very human, flaws.
The writing is quick and self-aware – Brunger is unafraid to make fun of his characters, who are all instantly recognisable and deeply relatable. The first sex scene between Michael and Pete, one part of the monogamous couple, is set up by a conversation about Pete’s desires in which he expresses a need to be dominated. When the moment comes, and Michael yells at Pete to “Take your fucking top off!”, it’s actually funnier than it is hot. This is the case throughout the show – sincere moments are always peppered with a sparkly-eyed humour that makes it a complete joy to watch.
The feeling in the room is one of community. The cast enter in neon pink disco lights, choreographed bouncing on unbelievably large exercise balls, to a pumping dance soundtrack. There is something about these moments of joy that feels unabashedly queer.
A stellar cast pulls off the four roles convincingly, but a special mention must go to Jo Foster as Andy, whose momentum onstage is a force of nature. Their delivery is spot-on: every joke lands, every mannerism subtle yet noticeable.
Four Play is a fantastic night out for anyone in need of a refresher about the realities of relationships. Fun, fast-paced and hilarious, it gets to the heart of modern dating, whilst providing 90 minutes of almost solid laughs. An accomplished piece of drama whose subject feels more relevant than ever.
Playing until 17th August, https://kingsheadtheatre.com/whats-on/four-play-zpj4
Reviewer: Holly Sewell
Reviewed: 16th July 2025
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